Deborah and I often lie in bed, lights out, just before going asleep while I massage her hands. Many a night she has gone to sleep while getting a hand massage.
Let's start with a woman you've just met in a social setting. No matter if you are seated or standing, you can do a quick hand massage that will feel great.
Most women I've met will allow you to take her hands and do a short, gentle massage. But don't be surprised if short turns to longer.
If the lady is wearing rings, ask her to slip her rings off while you're massaging. If she does, you just got her to undress her hands. Good start for later.
Now, for you guys in a committed relationship or marriage...hand massages can be done nearly anywhere...home, in the car, in bed, at the theater, at a party, at a bar. You can give a rub anywhere your lady will offer up her hand.
A hand massage is not just stroking the skin. You must knead the muscles like kneading bread. Most of your massage will be done on the inside of the hand, not on the back. Gently massage the big muscles at the thumb and heel of the hand. After that, use your thumb and index finger to massage the muscles between her thumb and index finger, almost like pinching. But be extremely careful. There is a major reflex point here, and if you are not careful it can be painful.
Then, use your thumbs to massage the entire palm of the hand while her hand is palm up. Finally, massage the muscle between each joint of each finger, and then massage the fingertips individually.
If the lady has some hand cream or lotion in her purse, ask her to get it out. Then do the massage with her own lotion. It will feel fantastic and be good for her skin.
The whole massage of one hand should take about five minutes. But don't be skimpy. Take longer if you can. The longer she allows you to touch her, the better.
I've been in situations where I started giving a hand massage and a line formed of other women who wanted a hand massage too. I've even had a women get in the line with their boyfriend. When I began working on that woman's hand, I showed the techniques to her boyfriend so (a) he would not get jealous, (b) he would learn how to give a hand massage, and (c) he would get future benefits.
If you are going to take this article seriously, you should do some research on Reflexology. Barbara and Kevin Kunz wrote a fine book called "Reflexology" that you should own.
Let's look at foot massage in the next article. Becoming an expert massager is just one more step toward your reputation as a Great Lover.
Close your eyes and imagine yourself in a dimly lit room, the smell of soothing fragrance fills the room. Candles sparkling all around, bringing your awareness to the calmness of the ambiance, leaving you feeling relaxed in a safe and comfortable space. You can now take a deep breath and truly feel like you are ready to give in, ready to forget all your troubling thoughts. You remember you are here to give this moment to yourself, to feel pampered and taken care of, to just be, for a while.
When the first few touches and strokes of oil start to softly cover your skin, you can feel your body thanking you. An ebb and flow of pressured and long and circular massaging strokes slowly start to loosen all your muscles and pressure points, and with each stroke, you feel more and more relaxed, more and more at peace, enfolded more and more into the present moment.
The smell of the oils and fragrances in the room are just the kind that you like and make you feel at ease.
Your body will be fully lavished in oil, entirely nurtured by its healing powers, every inch touched gracefully, every knot untied. Now you are completely serene, you feel reconnected to your body and you start to feel every touch more and more vibrant on your skin.
Now that all that stress and worries have left your body, and every inch of your skin explored, you can start to indulge your body into even higher sensations. A sensual massage can be a powerful tool for self-discovery and self-love, as you take the time to reconnect with your body and find out new and more exciting ways of feeling pleasure.
You are in a space without restraints so feel free to communicate with your therapist anything you need or you don't like. It's the moment to surrender completely and be free, let your imagination run wild and allow your body to express itself. Moan, ask, beg and don't hold back.
You will feel the hands slowly getting closer and closer, as the towel is being completely removed, you will be already charged with the anticipation of touch, as you feel your breathing becomes more and more rapid. You will feel your erotic energies fully aroused allowing you 토닥이 c코스 to reach your state of heightened sexuality even before your sensual spots will be massaged. The attentive caress will make sure your skin is tingling with arousal through every inch of your body. Think about the best orgasms you've had, now imagine your body being open and exposed to so much more than that.
This session is all about overindulgence and taking the time to explore every sensation throughout your entire body. In this fast paced world, this is a moment of dipping back into the pool of timeless serenity, complete awareness of yourself and your body. Yeah, it's incredibly exciting and therapeutic at the same time!
So what do you say? Curious?